after reading a blog,
i came to realise that even the
strongest friendship can break and shatter slowly.

it might be due to different cultures they are put in
after being seperated.
it might also be that they have changed since then.
however we can hardly ever tell who changed.
is it you? or is it me?
that answer will always be hidden.

maybe i never had a close friend before,
i don't know either.
i've walked in and out of people's life too many times
that i got kind of confused.
what's the definition of a close friend?

someone who shares the burden with you?
someone who will always be there?
someone who goes through thick and thin with you?
someone who will understand and compromise you?
or
is it someone who you often have fights with?

how best is best?
how good is good?
how close is close?
are you certain that even without regular meet-ups
or chat you still can stay close with your best friends?

i wonder :/